Want to hear what the one thing is that can make sex rock? The communication factor. Yep – I don’t mean talking exactly, but you need to be able to show what you want and be aware of what he is “telling” you that he wants.
Great place to start don’t you think?
Then there is kissing… Good kissing relies on communication too, again of the nonverbal variety. You listen with your lips – hopefully he does too – and the spark catches fire and… well, you know!
This is a great place to start, but what else SPECIFICALLY are guys are looking for?
Here are a few, given by guys:
1. Women that don’t leave it all up to the guy to make them feel good – they take responsibility for their own pleasure.
2. Women that really LIKE sex! They are obviously having a good time with their guy.
3. Women that make sounds and maybe are a little rough from time to time.
4. Women that are confident and comfortable with themselves.
5. Women that like to try something a little different, to experiment, even be a little kinky.
And here are a few tips for making sure the sex is really great for both of you:
1. Don’t be in a hurry – tease a little along the way.
2. Dirty is OK – I don’t mean physically unclean, but dirty sex can be a real turn on. If you haven’t tried that for awhile, give it a go!
3. Make eye contact from time to time – you don’t want him to think you are thinking of ANYTHING else.
4. Have a sense of humor and know that everything doesn’t go perfectly all the time – especially when trying something new!
5. Positive reinforcement is a good thing – don’t make him wonder if you are into it or not.
