Do you dream of being rich like Bill Gates or Oprah? Or maybe you don’t even dream that big – you just want to be ‘financially comfortable.’ Whatever your goal, it’s possible. And here’s why.
Your thoughts can affect your life. Did you know that? Thoughts are actual things. In fact, science has proven that our thoughts and emotions have definite vibrations. Positive, happy thoughts like love and appreciation vibrate very quickly. However, thoughts like fear, hatred, and jealousy vibrate quite slowly. This is a phenomenon called the Law of Attraction – it explains the connection between your thoughts and your life – even your financial situation. In order to attract more money, you must first be aware of the thoughts you have about money itself. If you find that you have any negative thoughts, you need to change them ASAP if you want to make your bank account grow.
Here are 7 ways you can do that:
1. Know that it’s possible.
How many times did you hear your parents say things like, “Money doesn’t grow on trees.” Or, “Do you think I’m made of money?” Many of us have been negatively programmed to think that money is scarce. It is not. There is plenty of money out there for the taking. You just need to believe that deserve your “piece of the pie.” Anything is possible. But you need to believe that before it happens.
2. Know that you are worthy.
Many people in our culture have low self-esteem. We are constantly bombarded with messages about how we are “not good enough.” Whether you compare your beauty to super models or your bank account to Oprah’s, you need to believe that you genuinely have something to offer the world. You have a special gift and talent that will help you attract more money. Rich people don’t have a problem promoting themselves, their services, or their business. That is because they believe they are worthy. You need to think that, too.
3. Be genuinely happy for people who have lots of money.
Sometimes people hear negative statements about rich people. Do any of these sound familiar: “Rich people are snobs” or “Rich people aren’t honest” or “Rich people are selfish.” If you heard this a lot growing up, then your subconscious mind is programmed with negative thinking about rich people. And your subconscious probably won’t let you become rich because you certainly don’t want to be a “snob,” “dishonest,” or “selfish.” Instead, realize that many rich people are very good human beings. Believe they deserve what they have. Bless them, and say a ‘thank you’ in advance for attracting more money yourself.
4. Focus appreciation on what you already have.
If you sit around thinking, “I don’t like my house, I wish I had a bigger one.” Or, “I can’t wait to get a new car because I’m embarrassed to drive this one,” you are sending out negative vibrations with your thoughts. According to the Law of Attraction, negative, slow-moving thoughts will not create anything positive. Instead, you need to love your house or your car. Or simply be grateful that you have a roof over your head, a bed to sleep in, or food on your table. The more you give appreciation to what you already have, the more likely it will be that you will be able to acquire more.
5. When you pay your bills, focus on being grateful.
I’m sure you have had a pit in your stomach before when you are paying bills. Most people have. That is because their focus is on the negative. All they think about is how much money is going out, not coming in. But you need to reframe that. Be happy when you pay your bills. Because guess what? That means that you actually have the money to pay them! If you weren’t paying them, that would mean you don’t have any money. So be grateful for having the money to pay out. After all, it does provide you with a place to live, a car to drive, and food on your table. That’s a good thing!
6. Speak and think about your love for money.
I’ve heard people say, “I hate money!” And my jaw always drops to the floor. How can you hate money? Well, the reason they hate money is because they don’t have any. That doesn’t mean that they really HATE money. They just hate the LACK of money. So you need to catch yourself if you keep saying negative things about money. Turn them around and say “I love money! Money is my friend! It brings me great joy!” The more that you put the positive vibrations of love towards the subject of money, the more you will acquire it.
7. Visualize and write affirmations.
Writing out positive statements (affirmations) and repeating them over and over in your mind helps re-program your brain. If you found in #3 that you think rich people are snobs, then repeat an affirmation such as, “Rich people are generous, kind, and loving people. I am appreciative that I will be one of them someday.” Vision boards are helpful too. Get a poster board and cut out words and photos of things you want. It could be a new car, a big house, a private jet, or your own yacht. Whatever feels good and gets you excited is appropriate to put on the board. Use your affirmations and your vision board together for maximum results.
It might sound far-fetched, but examining your thoughts and emotions around money can greatly improve your financial situation. It’s called living consciously. Taking control of your thought processes is the first step to improving anything in your life – even the balance in your bank account.
